HOMELIFE CONNECTION SUMMER 2016
Month: August 2016
Creating a Legacy for your Parent
Have Great Posture As You Age
HOMELIFE CONNECTION SUMMER 2016
The Benefits of Social Media for Seniors (and their Families)
HOMELIFE CONNECTION SUMMER 2016
Summer Caregiver of the Quarter
HOMELIFE CONNECTION SUMMER 2016
We wish to congratulate our Caregiver of the Quarter, Margarita Vasquez!
Margarita Vasquez has been a caregiver with HomeLife Senior Care since October 28th, 2013 and has been a pleasure to work with since joining the HomeLife team! Margarita has a compassionate heart for caregiving and shows this by her commitment to her client. She has a genuine personality and great communication skills. Margarita is always in excellent contact with the office staff and is quick to update us so that the care team she is a part of is well informed. She familiarizes herself with her clients’ circumstances so that she can provide the best care. She is very reliable and dependable and gets along well with everyone she works with. Margarita typically works twenty-four hour shifts which often times requires a caregiver to have a lot of patience and adaptability. It is not easy to leave one’s own family for long hours and put another before herself but she does this without complaint and has done so for several years now. Margarita proactively and regularly participates in caregiving trainings to further develop her caregiving skills and to increase her understanding of the ailments affecting the seniors in her care. The HomeLife staff and Margarita’s clients cannot say enough good things about her! We are fortunate and proud that Margarita is a part of our HomeLife family!
Help a Senior: Get Shopping!
Grocery shopping can be a difficult task for a senior who has limited mobility and decreased physical strength. Navigating the isles of the grocery store, reaching for high objects and reading labels and price tags can make grocery shopping a daunting chore, so much so, that a senior may jeopardize their nutrition by eating only frozen, microwavable foods, or not eating at all, to avoid the grocery store. A caregiver can ensure their senior friend or family member gets the nutrition they need by accompanying them to the store or doing the shopping for them. Consider these tips to help you make the most of your shopping trip:
- When shopping with a senior, try not to take charge. Let them make decisions for themselves regarding the types of items/brands they want to buy. Remain patient and be prepared for your shopping trip to take longer than usual.
- When checking out, stay in the background so that the other person can converse with the cashier and pay for the groceries. As seniors age and find themselves needing to rely more and more on others for help with daily tasks, it is important to recognize their need for independence too. Treat the person with the dignity you would expect if you were in their situation.
- Create a master grocery list on the computer listing every item he/she needs wants, including details such as specific brands and flavors, etc. Print this list each week and leave it in an obvious place for your friend to check off items as he/she runs out, creating a grocery list.
- When shopping without your senior friend, keep in mind any limitations your friend may have. Purchase smaller containers that are easy to lift when buying items such as milk and detergent. Also, select products that are easy to open, such as pop top cans and non-child proof medications.
- Buy smaller portion sizes to avoid wasting money on foods that will spoil before they are eaten since many seniors find their appetites diminishing.
- Check in regularly with your senior friend to make sure you are buying what he/she wants and needs or if there are any changes that need to be made.
- When putting the groceries away at their house, keep in mind your friend’s preferences for how he/she would like the items stored. Don’t reorganize their kitchen unless they ask you to do this. Some people have over 50 years of routines that matter to them and it’s important to keep items where he/she will be able to find them. Be respectful of your friend’s choices and organization.
By Amber Triebull
Care Benefits for Veterans
For qualifying veterans and surviving spouses, the Aid and Attendance (A&A) Pension provides funds to pay for in-home care when a veteran, or surviving spouse, is in need of assistance for daily living activities such as dressing, eating, cooking, bathing and toileting. The veteran does NOT need to require assistance with all of these things to qualify. It also pays for the care of veterans who are blind, are a patient in a nursing home, or for assisted care in an assisted living facility. A&A can also help with care for a veteran’s sick spouse when the veteran is still independent if the spouse’s medical expenses reach an amount that depletes their monthly income.
In order for a veteran to qualify for the A&A benefit, a doctor needs to determine that the veteran cannot completely function on their own and is in need of the assistance of another person. This other person does not need to be a licensed health aid, it can be anyone hired to provide care for the veteran. These benefits are available to any War-Time Veteran with 90 days of active duty, or their surviving spouse, and meet the medical and financial requirements.*
It may take four months or more for an application to be processed and eligibility to be determined. The good news is that all benefits are retro-dated back to the original filing date. It may take the veteran or family member some time to locate all the required paperwork needed to make a claim, but the process can be started by submitting a one page form, VA Form 21-4138 (Statement in Support of Claim) which will get the claim into the system. Once this form has been submitted, the veteran will have one year to file the packet and supporting documents. Please visit www.veteranaid.org for more information about the Aid and Attendance Pension or contact the local Contra Costa VA office at (925) 313-1490. The VA administration can assist in completing and submitting the needed forms.
By Amber Triebull
*Information in this article was provided by www.veteranaid.org
Engaging Activities for Seniors Living with Dementia
Participating in activities can promote a sense of accomplishment, independence and overall happiness for a person with dementia. It is important to remember that people with dementia are “people first,” and need to feel part of the world around them. It may be challenging for a family member or other caregiver to think of activities to engage a person with dementia, so I have compiled a list I hope you will find helpful. Pick activities the person can succeed in, keep directions simple and be flexible and encouraging!
- Play a game; change the rules to make them simpler if necessary.
- Garden together.
- Prepare meals together. Give the person a specific task such as washing the lettuce or mixing ingredients.
- Listen to music they used to enjoy. Sing together.
- Read short stories aloud.
- Look through old picture albums; encourage the person to reminisce.
- Share stories about the “good old days.”
- Complete art projects such as painting, scrapbooking, wood building, knitting or quilting.
- Exercise! Take a daily walk together or encourage participation in a senior’s exercise class.
- Plan outings to museums, parks, church, coffee or ice cream shops, places the person used to enjoy visiting.
- Sorting projects; paper, work related items, coins.
- Encourage participation in housekeeping such as dusting, wiping counters or folding laundry.
- Do hair and nails together.
- Care for a pet by grooming, feeding or walking.
- Puzzles and crossword puzzles.
- Watch classic movies together.
Find activities you both enjoy doing together while keeping the mind and body of your loved one living with dementia active!
By Amber Triebull